Evescafe

Don't even mention the word "commitment". That's the whole trick. The less you say about it, the closer you are to getting one.

In fact, each time you say commitment you've just added on a few weeks or months. And don't talk about exclusivity or monogamy. The less you ask, the more he'll tell. All negotiations should be 95 percent nonverbal and 5 percent verbal. You have to act like you are still getting to know him and that commitment is nowhere on your radar.

This will disarm him. Now he's a warrior without a battle plan because has no idea to swing his ax. With the nice girl, he can see what her plan is and win. But with a bitch, he can't see his opponent or her plan. This is precisely why he plays . . . right into her hands.

So let's practise. Let's pretend you are on a date. Imagine that you are sititing in his car under the moonlight, kissing. While he's putting on the moves he asks, "Where do you see yourself in five years? Do you see yourself getting married?